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If my first reply shows up later I am sorry, it disappeared. This story was so familiar, its like I lived it. Actually I have been avoiding this Elf on the Shelf & Randall Reindeer for over 19 years, not because I hate but like you I felt it may be to much pressure on a kid. I remember as well trying to be good enough for Santa's eyes, let alone another.
My oldest would write her letter to Santa by Halloween and it was extensive. She was four and was learning to write so although my first words were 'don't you think I'll forget to send it' her reply was 'don't worry I'll remind you'.....My second was my boy Davy who my daughter was quick to help write his letters, and he'd draw pictures emphasizing his point. Obviously Santa's prying eyes were constantly on their minds. So my being creeped out by an Elf or Reindeer was not necessary.
Now that the others are 19 and 12, we have a three year old, Bubs. I was encouraged by a very sweet older lady to try it. Following my usual addage of don't knock it till you try it, I caved. Dad's first words to Bubs were 'Randall the snitch. You know he's going to tell Santa. You know what they say Snitches get Stitches.' I was stuck between laughing my butt off and telling Bubs that Daddy was teasing him. I did both, it was appropriate for my personality. Bubs looked at us like we were crazy and had no idea what we were talking about. So we've tried it with slight results, so occasionally we mention Randall and usually allow him to play with him in the mornings putting him back on the shelf in the morning. He's better behaved while playing with the doll like a friend (cause friends don't tattle, lol) and I'm good with it. Maybe next year or with future Grandbabies....
TiffanyL
TiffanyL